Couple O' Nukes
Couple O’ Nukes is a self-improvement podcast that engages difficult conversations to cultivate life lessons, build community, amplify unheard voices, and empower meaningful change. Hosted by Mr. Whiskey—a U.S. Navy veteran, author, preacher, comedian, and speaker—the show blends lived experience, faith, science, and humor to address life’s most challenging realities with honesty and purpose.
Each episode explores topics such as mental health, suicide prevention, addiction recovery, military life, faith, fitness, finances, relationships, leadership, and mentorship through in-depth conversations with expert guests, survivors, and practitioners from around the world. The goal is simple: listeners leave better than they arrived—equipped with insight, perspective, and the encouragement needed to create change in their own lives and in the lives of others.
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Forgive And Protect: Escaping Toxic Cycles Without Becoming Resentful Or Naïve
Today, I read a chapter from the Survival To Thrival book series focused on forgiveness, boundaries, unity, and emotional safety. I open with Proverbs 17:9 and explain why forgiveness is not a simplistic “clean slate,” but a choice that can either heal or enable depending on how it is practiced. I use my personal history with severe family dysfunction to frame the chapter’s main idea: forgiveness can be real, deep, and freeing—while still requiring wisdom, limits, and accountability.
I break down the difference between “forgive and forget” versus what I teach as “forgive and protect.” In this episode, I define protection as respectful boundaries, consistent accountability, and refusing to be emotionally held hostage—especially when someone’s patterns repeatedly endanger you or others. I also connect this to what I’ve learned through exposure to addiction dynamics, where loved ones often forgive in a way that unintentionally enables destructive behavior.
I add an essential warning that isn’t stated directly in the chapter: unregulated forgiveness can trap people inside toxic relationships, including situations of domestic violence and sexual assault. I clarify that forgiveness never equals permission for continued harm, and it does not require forgetting, tolerating danger, or surrendering your voice. In the end, I lay out a balanced model: choose freedom over bitterness, pursue unity where possible, and maintain your safety through boundaries that prevent the past from repeating.
Survival To Thrival (Forgiveness): https://a.co/d/3E2ibqE
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